Lesson: You are not in control. As humans we are poor at predicting the future. Our lives are nothing like we expected. God provides for us and takes care of everything so we do not have to. Disapproval of another’s action.
Emotions: Anger, Conflict, Stubbornness
Fix: You cannot screw up God’s plan. The Crucifixion; would you have stopped it? “Resist nothing.” Sample Cases: This may involve the person controlling another or a person being controlled by another. Disapproval of someone’s driving, behavior or choices. Disapproval of an authoritative person, organization or government.
Lesson: “Only the All-Knowing can judge” - If you do not judge it, you will Love it. God’s creation is perfect and cannot be improved. Judgement keeps your true self from being present.
Emotions: Disgust, Bitterness, Hatred, Defensiveness
Fix: If you knew their story, you would just Love them. A Mantra: “It could be worse.” If God is in everything and there is something you do not like, that is a part of God that you do not like.
Sample Cases: Anything you do not like is because of judgment, including self-judgment and not being judged. If you do not judge, you do not feel you are being judged.
Lesson: Who you really are. What you are really connected to and your true inheritance. A “loss of” something that is perceived by your identity.
Emotion: Despair, Insecurity, Self-esteem, Depression
Fix: Worthiness Meditation: Bring awareness of your worthiness to receive “who you really are” - receipt of your Soul, Significant other, Time, Children and Grandchildren.
Sample Cases: A loss of employment, business, or symbol of your identity. Bankruptcy, foreclosure or repossession are all representation of the perception of your identity. Typically, the identity is not Spiritual in nature, but is of a physical condition
Lesson: This is a major big lesson! This lesson is the mature soul getting near the “good stuff,” but it is also a tough lesson.
Emotion: Love Unreceived, Heartache, Lust (deals with the physical)
Fix: Release the physical condition and just love it as you see the lesson.
Sample Cases: Any “weird” relationship with physical separation. A couple that is geographically separated or a condition that prevents a physical connection.
Someone “acted” against you. Let it go. To forgive, you do not have to tell anyone anything. You just need to let it “go”. “Forgive them for they do not know what they do." - Jesus
Emotion: Betrayal, Rejection, Guilt, Regrets & Self-Forgiveness
Fix: Does God have a problem with you? Does God have a problem with them? Only the “All-Knowing” can judge. Was it according to God’s plan? Did God know since the beginning of time it was going to occur?
Sample Cases: Betrayal can occur in any relationship including “significant other,” family members, friends or coworkers. Someone “trespassed against you.” This includes any incident that may be considered “wrongful,” including crimes and abuses against you. Self-forgiveness usually involves regrets and may also include the life lesson of Divine Guidance.